Effective leadership involves providing clear and constructive employee feedback that fosters positive change without damaging relationships. Using a structured 9-step model can help leaders deliver feedback that is specific, supportive, and solution-oriented. This approach includes describing observed behavior, soliciting input, sharing feelings and impacts, asking for needs, offering support, getting commitment, and ending on a positive note. Practicing this method can enhance feedback delivery, minimize hesitation, and attract top talent.
Effective leadership is not just about delegating tasks and making decisions; it also involves the crucial skill of providing constructive feedback to employees. One of the core skills of a great leader is the ability to provide constructive feedback in a way that is clear, concise and well received.
Too often messages are either vague and unclear or delivered as an emotional blow to an employee’s ego. One way to ensure that your employee feedback is going to lead to change, and not have a negative impact on your relationship, is to have a roadmap for approaching feedback.
As a leadership coach, I have been using a 9-step model, and sharing it with coaching clients, for many years. Reports back are that the approach removes the hesitation to providing feedback and helps leaders avoid blaming employees. By following these steps, leaders can deliver feedback that is specific, supportive, and solution-oriented.
Try it out. Practice it. Find a feedback roadmap that works for you. You don’t need to use all the steps all the time. In fact, steps 3 and 4 should only be used if you have strong feelings that will get in the way of the relationship if not shared.
By practicing this feedback model, leaders can enhance their communication skills, attract top talent, and create a culture of growth and development within their teams. Over time, mastering this skill can make you a magnet for talented individuals who value leaders committed to their personal and professional growth.
[FROM THE ARCHIVES: This article was originally published in 2016 and has been updated with new content.]